It’s not your fault. And yes it is going to hurt for awhile, but you will get through this. You can be the best person in the world but if you are with the wrong person, who doesn’t appreciate that, you’re screwed. Because sadly, your best still won’t be good enough for the wrong person.
Your heart will be torn into pieces and you will not want to give up. But the thing is, you should. If you can’t find a person who not only takes your love but gives it back to you 10 fold in return, you are going to be miserable.
No matter how much you love them.
Love isn’t a one-way street. It is a feeling and commitment that takes two people. It is one of the best feelings in the world but it can kill you if you’re loving the wrong person.
It will drag you down and start chipping away at the wonderful person you are. And it won’t stop until the strong independent person you were, is gone.
Relationships are like trees. they need a ton of nourishment and a great environment to grow so if you don’t have that, what’s the point? All you will end up with is a dead relationship and a broken heart.
But the thing is… You can’t force someone to love you. You can’t make them look at you with love and admiration when they just don’t.
And you shouldn’t want to. You shouldn’t want a person who is only staying with you because they are comfortable and waiting for someone better.
Yes, it is hard to let go of someone you have put so much time and effort into, but it is so much harder to hold on. You are risking your happiness, health, and future, with someone who doesn’t give a damn about your relationship.
And you shouldn’t be risking missing out on finding the love of your life for someone who doesn’t even know what they are missing.
So don’t waste your time. You’re too good of a person to be waiting for someone to change… Because they won’t.
You are good enough! But you won’t be good enough for the wrong person and they don’t deserve it anyway.
You are beautiful, you are worth it, and you are deserving of someone who truly loves you. And once you get past this person who is using you instead of loving you, you will see that. – Nicole Clements