Keeping it Real

To The Boys Who Don’t Understand What “In A Relationship” Means

Dear Boys, (I will call you this considering a man doesn’t need this talk)

I get it, women who are taken are just that much more attractive, right? Or the lady you have had your eyes on and maybe even had a “thing” with (whatever that means) is now taken, and all you can think about is how you lost your chance but maybe you can “get her back now”.

Well, I’m here to inform you that you are too late. It is too late for you to be sending texts about how much you care and how much you want to be with her. It is too late for you to pretend like you love her when you most likely had plenty of time to tell her this.

When a lady is in a relationship you do not bother her. You do not send her “I wish I told you this sooner” texts. You do not snap chat her asking her stupid sh*t. You do not facebook message her, dm her, leave heart eye emoji’s on her Instagram.

You just leave her the hell alone! If you were too stupid to realize how great she was before she found someone who really cared about her and made her happy, that’s your fault, not hers.