She doesn’t know if this is a goal for some women, and if it is, good for them! But becoming a trophy wife is not in her future for many reasons.
She wants to work hard and make money so she can help support her family, too. She knows not all “trophy wives” are stay at home moms, but some are, and most, expect a lot from their husbands, including his time.
But if you only have one income in an economy like this, and still want a nice house, nice cars, and nice clothes, you can’t expect your husband to also have time for you.
She wants a marriage that incorporates hard work and time spent with each other. she doesn’t want her husband to be the only one working his butt off to support them. Because she knows she is a smart and independent young woman who can just as easily work her ass off as well.
She doesn’t want to be a trophy wife because she could care less about if other men find her attractive. The only guy she wants thinking she is gorgeous is her husband in the first place. The only man she needs to think “Man I hit the jackpot” is him, no one else.
I don’t want to be a Trophy wife because I am smart, college educated and want to have a successful career.
She wants to work hard to make a name for herself so she can give back to the communities who helped her become the successful woman she is.
She wants to be proud of working hard through college and using that knowledge to better herself and others.