She doesn’t know if this is a goal for some women, and if it is, good for them! But becoming a trophy wife is not in her future for many reasons.
She wants to work hard and make money so she can help support her family, too. She knows not all “trophy wives” are stay at home moms, but some are, and most, expect a lot from their husbands, including his time.
But if you only have one income in an economy like this, and still want a nice house, nice cars, and nice clothes, you can’t expect your husband to also have time for you.
She wants a marriage that incorporates hard work and time spent with each other. she doesn’t want her husband to be the only one working his butt off to support them. Because she knows she is a smart and independent young woman who can just as easily work her ass off as well.