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11 Ways You Know You Have a Ride or Die Bestie

We all have that best friend who we would do anything for and who, of course, would return the favor. These are the ways you know you have found your Ride or Die Bestie.

1. She is the first one you tell your secrets to

Your friendship is a no judge circle, and secrets are actually kept secret. That’s why you both love each other so much, because hey, some of those secrets could really ruffle a few feathers…

2. She will keep you out of trouble, even if that means lying a little…

There is nothing your best friend won’t do to keep you safe and the “innocent” angel you are. Who said fibbing was a bad thing when it is used for a good reason?!

3. She loves you for you

You definitely are not perfect! But in her eye’s your imperfections make her love you that much more because it reminds her that life is crazy and so are people. But she wouldn’t want to share this crazy life with any other person but you.

4. She supports your decisions 

If no one else supports them, she sure does. She may not always agree with them but she wants you happy, so always having your back is a priority for her.

5. She has your back

She’s your bestie, so if anyone thinks talking smack about you around her is okay she will tell them what is up. She will not let anyone get away with gossiping about you, especially in her presence, because she knows you would do the same for her.

6. Your friendship is important to her and she proves it

She isn’t one of those “come and go” friends, she is someone you can always count on and who proves her love for you every day.

7. She is your sister from another mister

She isn’t just your best friend, she is also your sister. You do everything together and in turn, life is so much more enjoyable. You may be apart at times, maybe for school, a job, or just life, but you know your friendship and sisterhood will always be there.

8. She will never break girl code

She probably has a different taste in guys than you do, but if not, you too never step on each other’s toes. Her respect for you and your relationships, whether ended or not, show how much she cares for you. Because hey, sometimes guys are all about breaking us girl-friends up!

9. You both put each other before any boy

You may be in a serious relationship currently too, but he knows that she comes first and that’s okay. Best friends are for a life and us girls have to stick together even if there is a cute boyfriend in the mix.

10. Bathroom breaks together are a thing

Whether that’s just you two talking on the phone, when one of you is taking a restroom break or you both are together in person, it doesn’t matter. You both stopped being embarrassed about bathroom breaks a looong time ago.

11. She will always be the best person you could ever have in your life

Your Best Friend is your soul mate. She is the woman you look up to and hold close to your heart. You are so blessed to have found her and sharing your life moments with anyone else wouldn’t be the same.

So, thank you best friend, for believing in me, loving me, and taking on this crazy world with me, because you truly make my days happier and brighter. I couldn’t image my life without you, and I hope I never have to!

Love,

Your Ride or Die Best Friend

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